and he wept

"By the way, don't 'weep inwardly": and get a sore throat. if you must weep, WEEP:
a good honest howl! I suspect we- and especially my sex- don't cry enough now-a-days. Aeneas and Hector, Beowulf, Roland an Lancelot blubbered like schoolgirls. So why shouldn't we?"

-The ever inspiring C.S. Lewis : Letters to an American Woman